This is a blog I put together for my dear lost friend Corey Womack. Its purpose is to give all of us a place to post our condolences, our memories, and our thoughts. If you have something you would like to post, you can e-mail it to me at WLentlie@gmail.com
This is for you Corey.
Monday, July 16, 2007
Condolences from Chainsaw
I was away on vacation when Corey passed away, I didn’t find out anything until the day I got back, which was the following Saturday. Like everyone else, I didn’t believe it at first, I still find it hard to believe sometimes. How could such a terrible thing happen to such an amazing and loving person? I met Corey in 9th grade Spanish, however in that’ short amount of time, Corey really grew on me. Corey was one of my best friends, always there to make everyone smile when we needed him, or even when we were already smiling, he would leave us rolling on the floor, laughing at one of his stories. He was always a good friend, never letting you down, always ready to lend a helping hand, always smiling no matter what, spontaneously dishing out hugs to everyone, even strangers. I have so many memories of Corey, all of which involve laughing and sometimes crying because of the laughing and shortness of breath. I still remember the night that I he was at my house giving everyone nicknames, mine being Chiggity Chainsaw. The name stuck, as well as some other peoples which we still use to this day.
Corey, the biggest Nintendo fan of all time would constantly heckle me about my whiteness and my support of the PS3, and we could constantly argue jokingly about how the PS3 matched up against the Wii, or how the Xbox 360 just sucked in general. I ended up getting a 360, not a PS3, yet I know that I will some day get a PS3, just to be the rich white boy that he knows, only to buy a Wii later on. Corey and I never actually got into an argument, just two friends jostling each other about their nerdy toys.
I feel very honored to meet such an amazing individual. He taught me a lot about life, especially how to just be myself. He is someone who will never ever be forgotten, someone who has influenced the lives of many, and will continue to do so forever.
I recently heard Freebird played by a band live. I couldn’t help but scream the lyrics, just for the man himself, Corey Womack.
I love you man, cya later.
-Chiggity Chainsaw Chad English
Thursday, March 22, 2007
Memorial in honor of Corey Womack
"Jennifer Mooney"
Sunday, March 18, 2007
Condolences from Oscar Zubia
so long since I even heard from Corey. All I have now are all of the
memories from when we were younger and still living in California. We used
to hang out almost everyday, we would take him to school and he would stay
with us until his mom got home from work. He was always one of my favorite
friends, we all had so much in common. Going over to Corey and Joy's house
was always fun, I never knew how much I would miss it. When we moved we
barely kept in touch and then Corey and Joy moved to New York. We would
keep in touch a bit through email and instant messenger but I wish there
could have been more. Joy encouraged me and my brother to plan a trip up
there but things didnt work out and we all got busy with our own lives, I
wish it could've been arranged, I wish things could have been different. I
would give anything to go back in time and go up to see Corey one last time,
get to know him again, see what he grew up to be. Judging from this blog
and from the video that was made for him and all of his comments and
condolences I see that he turned out just like I thought he would. He was
always an amazing guy raised by an amazing mom. It hits me so hard that
this could happen to someone this full of life. He will not be forgotten in
my mind and in my family's minds, we all loved Corey very much and will
always remember him. We hold so many memories of the past, I only wish I
could've been part f his future. My condolences go out to everyone out
there who is grieving about this loss and hope everyone can get through
this, life goes on and Corey will not be forgotten.
Oscar Zubia Jr.
Las Cruces, NM
From Corey's Mom
I am compelled to write on Corey’s blog to publicly thank all of you for Corey and myself. I wish Corey could write this as he was a far more articulate and creative writer. I will just have to hope the words come to me from him.
I have received such warmth, love and support from reading here as well as the personal emails, the flowers, the donations, the baskets of goodies, the pictures, YouTube tribute, chorus ensemble, teachers and mentors involvement, words and stories heard at Corey’s service, as well as those spoken privately or in cards.
Corey truly was one of the “beautiful” people, inside and out. He honestly surrounded himself with others, who in their own special way, belonged in the same class. There is not a lot written here that surprised me about him. I have always known his wonderful ways and qualities. The one surprise was his “sweet dance moves”. He never let on he was a dance machine. I was always waiting to hear it though as my family, the Dutton's, were always known to take over a dance floor. :)
Love for music was always in our household. In fact, I used to sing the James Brown “I Feel Good” song to him as an infant. By the time he was able to sit, he would rock back and forth, with a big smile ,to the rhythm of the song as I sang it:)
He also developed his predilection for storytelling at a young age. Our routine at bedtime was for me to give a “rub back”, as he called it, while we discussed his day. At the age of six, first grade, I was rubbing his back and he started to tell a story of his day. He described a flock of geese flying down into the schoolyard, causing the children to run and scream. The teachers did nothing. More flocks of geese came until the whole schoolyard was full of them, children freaking out, and now the teachers running and screaming too. I was sitting there replying “No! How horrible and scary…. Etc” He lead me on with this story for several minutes until it became so absurd I realized he had fabricated it. He turned his sweet face toward me, eyes twinkling with a huge smile, and then just laughed and laughed – making ME laugh. He could always make me laugh, and always did.
His favorite movie at about age two or three was “Mary Poppins” and I started talking with a British accent like Mary P. “Would you care for a spot of tea”, “spit spot” etc. His gift for accents came quickly and never stopped.
I need to specifically thank Mr. T, Ms. Lupe, Ms Weeks, and Ms. Eichholzer for being his mentors and teachers as well as his friends. Thank you Will, for creating this blog, Audrey for the YouTube tribute, Ryan Mooney and Jade Brewer for the awesome support and kindness as well as assisting with help creating his memory board. Thank you Jeri Ann for writing a beautiful and comforting song (performing May 12th at Cook Park), Erin for your lovely poem. Thank you J-Steve, Sam -Chan, Shane, Chris, C-Joe, Kayla, Gabby, Jeri-Ann, Sean, Joe, Anson, Will, Will, Ryan, Oscar, Tommy, Phillip, Gina, Elliott, Brianna, Olivia, Kyle, and numerous others. Thank you for your friendship. You made Corey a very happy person for knowing you.
Thank you Renate, Teresa, Paula, and families, Jenny, Ikey, Valerie, Phil, Ellen, Eileen, BC, Paul, Scott, Neil ,Janna, Bobby, Judy ,Rusty, Harry, Bibbs, Wanda and My Dad , my personal friends and family for being there for me, through it all. I thank all that I work with and used to work with for the support and generous gifts.
Corey’s best friend , John Twordowski – thank you for driving me around, coming to visit at any call and assuming Corey’s role in making me laugh. I have officially adopted you.
I always believed, and I still do, that I was brought to this world specifically to bring him into this world for his wonderful, nonjudgemental ways, creative talent and comedic loving nature. Apparently his gift to the world was completed, his impact felt and absorbed. I will miss him all my life and keep his memories as gifts from him. Please honor him, carry his memories and emulate his kind ways.
To everyone who has written the wonderful words here, I thank you. I feel Corey’s love for me through you.
Be kind to each other, live, laugh, love, sing – and get out and DANCE!
Love, Joy Dutton, Corey’s mom
PS I know I left some peoples names out. Please forgive me.
" Do not stand by my grave and weep, I
am not there, I do not sleep. I am a
thousand winds that blow, I am the
diamond glints on snow. I am the
sunlight on ripened grain, I am the
gentle autumn rain. When you awaken
in mornings hush, I am the swifter
uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled
flight. I am the soft star that shines at
night. Do not stand by my grave and
cry, I am not there, I did not die."
Sunday, March 4, 2007
Condolences from J-Steve
Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Condolences From Peter Taormina
Mr. T
Saturday, February 24, 2007
Condolences from Jen Lin
He was so fearless. Nothing would or could deter him from doing the insane things that he has done. I wish I had his courage. He didn't care what other people thought about him. Just as long as he had an audience, he was happy. There are countless memories of him just being him, and the rest of us holding our sides from laughing so much. I would give anything just to have those days back
He could make any rainy day seem bright and sunny. No matter how bad your day was he could make it be alright. It was one of his many gifts, but its the one that I will miss the most. I will miss every story he'll never tell again, every picture he'll never draw, every song he'll never sing, and every greeting he'll never make. He has left a void in all of our lives that will never, and can never be replaced.
I know he would not want us to mourn his death, and yet it happens. I know that he would want us to move on with our lives, and we will. No one can be ready for the death of a friend. Especially when that friend has barely begun to live. So I think he'll forgive us, just this once, for being little sad. But we'll get through this because we have each other, and our memories. And though it may seem like the end of the world in this place and time, life goes on. In 70 years or so, when we die and go where ever we go, I'm sure he'll be there waiting for us. Waiting to make us laugh again. Until then, keep laughing, keep living, because its what he would have wanted.
JL
P.S. Somebody better bring the graham crackers or he's gonna be mad.
Goodnight
As for you Corey, I'm not mad I just wish you could have spent more time here with us, it's so cliche, but life is honestly never going to be the same without a Corey Womack in it. I know God is laughing a lot more these past few days because he has you now, but please don't ever lose it, you never know which one of us is going to need to be cheered up once we are up there. You weren't smiling tonight and I hated it, that bothered me more than anything else, I just wanted to see that smile one more time. God Bless you Corey and thank you for being a part of my life.
Meghan Dralle
Friday, February 23, 2007
Condolences from Cristie-Jo Fitzpatrick
I let those same walls crumble around me as I let someone I barely knew rub my back. This young girl assured me it was going to be okay. Truth is, someday it will be. But, this moment, this point in time. Its not.
We were asked to come up and share a few words, I walked up caring a million thoughts in my head, but by the time I spoke only few fell out. I wanted to tell these people, tell your mom, your dad, your friends... that I loved you more then I have ever loved anyone in my life. I wanted them to know that I was sorry for refusing to kiss you on your prom night, I was scared and so were you. also at the talent show, you dedicated that song to me. I was so embarrassed, and I loved every second of it.
I know your time here was limited, fuck, I hate god for doing that to us. But in all realization, you were the only persons who's laughter spread like wildfire on a blistering summer day. I'm sorry that I blew you off so many times, If I wasn't so indulged in my own life I would have pushed to have spent more time with you. If I only knew how much I would miss you, how much I would want to just hold you, dance with you, take you to Forrest park again (which was in the middle of nowhere but we found our way home) I would tell you that I was selfish and that I was sorry.
truth be told, I'm afraid of what the future holds without you CW. You were the only person I could run to when shit got shitty. I guess I got to say my goodbyes, but that will never be enough.
so, I will push myself to spend more time with the people that I care about, From all of this bullshit god has put me, your friends and your family through. I thank him for the time I had with you. I really hope your mom calls me or something because I know shes hurting.
I love you.
your C-Joe
Condolences from Amanda Cortes
Condolences from Jade
Love,
Jade
Condolences from Sharon Segura
Hi – I just want to say that I am a dear friend of Corey’s Aunt Judy and I grieve for her and Joy. I wish I had met Corey from all the things I learned from Judy and all the truly amazing things you all are saying about him!
As a past graduate of Colonie “Central” High School it gives me great joy to know that you “kids” today are as passionate and loving as we were in the “old days”. As I have gotten older and I hope wiser, I have needed my friends a lot and I am thankful for all the friends I have. I can’t imagine losing one of them!!
My son will be attending the high school as a freshman next year and it gives me comfort to know that there are truly very compassionate young adults for him to get to know. Thank you.
I am deeply sorry for your loss and from what everyone has said they will do on your blog, in the TU and Newcomer guest books, is to hold Corey’s memory with them forever and be changed by the beautiful things he gave or taught you.
I just wanted to share my thoughts with you and say that the words and definitely the poems brought me to tears!!
Again, I am sorry for all of you and will keep everyone in my thoughts and prayers.
Sharon M. Segura
Condolences from Amanda Quinn
Thursday, February 22, 2007
Condolences from Ducky
*~Ducky :-)
Condolences from Chris Futia
I was lucky enough to meet Corey through tech crew my freshman year at Colonie Central High School. One of the first things I recall about him is that all my freshman year he called me "stupid freshman", and he laughed when i responded to being called that even when I got another nickname he would still call me that as though it were my real name, we both found it pretty funny. I also remember the day i got sent home from tech crew for having a mach battle with stools and rulers in the art room with him last year. I also think of the countless times we went to the mall in a big group last year before tech crew started. Another hilarious memory of him is the time he told us the joke about how the juice companies had made up the "hollow cost" it was the funniest joke I ever heard. One of my most recent memories I have of him is giving him a ride home one day shortly before Christmas 2006, and being it was the holiday season traffic was awful so the trip to take him home was extra long, I feel blessed to have received that time with him and even though it was only about 45 minutes i feel now as thought its my most favored of memories, because we just laughed and joked the whole time and he had my mom and my older sister cracking up laughing at his jokes. I remember talking about how he camped out for his Wii and my mom offered him $300 for his because her and my stepdad were going crazy looking for one for my stepbrother for Christmas. As we all know Corey loves his Nintendo and he said that he wouldn't sell his Wii for 3 million dollars. And as I type this I realize one of the greatest tragedies of everything about the loss of Corey Womack at such a young age, its the fact that we will never get to here him talk about Super Mario Galaxy or Super Paper Mario or Mario Party 8, but we all know he would've never let us here the end of how great these games are, but I know that they'll have a Wii in heaven just waiting for Corey.
Corey's death was tragic but let us never forget who he was and how he taught us all how to be good friends and good people, but first and foremost let us remember the laughter and joy he brought into those lives that he touched. My only regret is that we didn't spend more time together outside of school especially since he said he thought we ought to.
Condolences from Anson Wong
Will Lentlie and I spoke about Corey; I just returned from New York City and wanted to see how other people were doing. I mentioned how I think that I wasn't sad that I didn't get to say farewell to him before he went, and I still feel that way.
In the time I knew him, Corey and I never fought, had an argument, or even got angry. Every memory I hold with him has been something incredible or just enjoyable. Whether if it was fighting with kendo sticks at 3 am or snorting lines of sugar at Friendly's, I can honestly say that I tried to make the best of every moment with him. I don't regret I didn't get to say goodbye, rather, I really wish that he didn't have to go at such a young age.
We talked about what we wanted to do with our lives in Economics one day and he told me about his plans to go to SUNY Purchase. It struck me that just below that extremely funny layer, was a passion to achieve more. It was amazing to know that he had such aspirations in life and he had already planned out exactly what he wanted to do: Electronic Media. I think it was a few weeks later when he showed me his drawing of the guitar he created for the band logo. My gut reaction was that he pulled it from somewhere online until I realized that that masterpiece had come from his own hand. I couldn't believe the raw talent he possessed; from his singing to that drawing. I still proudly display the picture he drew for me on my Christmas card: a Chinese Santa.
Another thing that struck a chord with me was how much he really cared about his family. I still remember how he brought in pictures of his family out in Colorado and how proudly and happily he displayed their pictures to the rest of the Tech Crew.
Besides all the seriousness, I have so many fond memories of times we spent together. From learning how to keep things BRUTAL to getting owned in Guitar Hero 'cause he insisted we play Freebird on expert. Recently, we were going through Cohoes with the windows down, blaring the Cake song from Lazytown and pretending we were gangsters.
I think in the end, I'm extremely honored to have met such a unique individual. He might be gone, but there won't ever be anyone like him so he will always be special to each and everyone of us. I think I also think I have found my idea for the tattoo I want when I'm 18: the Flying V guitar just like he drew for his logo.
I hope I never forget everything he taught me.
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
Condolences from Brianna Garcia
That people come into our lives for a reason
Bringing something we must learn
And we are led
To those who help us most to grow
If we let them
And we help them in return
Well, I don't know if I believe that's true
But I know I'm who I am today
Because I knew you
Like a comet pulled from orbit
As it passes a sun
Like a stream that meets a boulder
Halfway through the wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
But because I knew you
I have been changed for good
It well may be
That we will never meet again
In this lifetime
So let me say before we part
So much of me
Is made of what I learned from you
You'll be with me
Like a handprint on my heart
And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have re-written mine
By being my friend...
Condolences from Vergog
Nick Voerg
Condolences from Erin Chesky
Condolences from Gabby Saulsbery
You know the quote, "It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all"? I never understood it until I got the call that told me you were gone. Friendship is definitely a legitimate form of love -- let me tell you, it's better to have loved and lost Corey Womack than to have never known him at all. I met you my freshman year at the first football game into the school year through my cousin and we clicked immediately because you were wearing aviator sunglasses & a Jim Morrison shirt, and I love the Doors. I remember talking to you in the halls one day about how those sunglasses broke, haha...we mourned. I am SO GLAD I met you, it's impossible not to be.
Buddy, with so many dreams yet to be fulfilled, you didn't deserve this but nobody should be blamed. God just wanted you sooner...we all know there were plenty of reasons to; you were sweet and funny and talented and unique and just an all-around astonishing person. I remember standing in line outside the doors waiting to get into homecoming, we were just talking about some things we'd love to do...we said we'd both go hang-gliding before we died. You're doing it in death I'm sure, an angel above us...but whenever it may be that I go, a picture of you is coming with me so that I can say "Before I died, I got to go hang-gliding with Corey."
If you could respond to this I know you and your modest self would deny a bunch of it. You never gave yourself enough credit...if you were any less amazing, I don't know if I'd be up at 3:13AM (this message has taken me a while, ahhJesus!) writing it knowing that I need to be up in 4 hours for a stupid orthodontist appointment. I think your wake is gonna be the first place you've been in a while where you don't start (and WIN!) a dance-off. You're the top, Corey. You truly are.
Condolences from the Mack Attack
What's more unbelievable is that he really didn't have any enemies. Even if you weren't friends with him you still remember how he was an animal on the dance floor, or how he sang and sang and sang wherever he went. And his style was all his own. Let me tell you, I'm awfully jealous that I couldn't pull off those Bill Cosby sweaters. No matter where he was, no matter what he did, he did with his own style and his own pizazz. He was the definition of individual.
And honestly, I don't really know anyone who was funnier than he was; I can't even count the number of times he literally had me laughing and yes even rofl-ing. He was at some times Corey and at other times possibly a foreigner from Soviet Russia, he had a plethora of different accents, and he really knew how to make you laugh with them. The kid was an absolute comedian. I mean he made drawings of the freaking LOLer Bot, if that's not a true testament to his character; I'm not sure what is.
He was truly an amazing, genuine, caring guy. I know that we will all miss his smile, his humor, his laugh (along his many variations of character that he possessed) and most of all his presence. I don't care what our yearbook says, or what anyone else says. Corey Womack is a legend, and we dare not forget him. It deeply saddens me that such a great kid had to go at such an opportune time. I think we all should take a good look at Corey, and just really try to be more like him. So carefree, so genuine, so heartfelt with everything he did. It's without a doubt that he really had no regrets and I think we should all look up to him for not being afraid to stand out and be who he was, because he truly brightened all of our days with happiness, cheer and laughter. Thank you for all the moments and memories you have
given us man, you've been nothing short of incredible. I believe that you have truly inspired and humbled all of us.
God bless you Corey, I hope to see you and your crazy self in Heaven some day. I'll miss you bro, thanks for all the incredible times, I'll never, never, never forget you. I'll be praying for you and your family. Rest In Peace.
Chris Macken
Condolences from Vinny Ginardi
Condolences from Patrick Kennedy
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
Rest In Peace Corey
This is a message from one of his best friends John about the Memorial Service.
"An open viewing will be conducted for Corey on Friday the 23rd. It will be held at Newcomer Cannon located at 343 New Karner Road. The viewing will run from 3-7 PM and services will begin at 8 PM. During the service you are allowed and encouraged to say a few words on Corey's behalf.
To clarify, everything is being done on Friday. The initial word was that it would take place over Friday and Saturday, but everything is being done Friday. There is no burial as Corey had already decided on being cremated should anything happen.
If you would to send a few words to Corey's mother, you can e-mail her at coreyjoy@aol.com
Please spread the word.
Thanks,
John T."
Thanks to Audrey, there is also a very nice collection of videos and pictures of Corey at dances, and a lot of his work in the plays. It would be great if everyone could check it out. It can be seen here.
Corey was the best guy I have ever known. He was kind, he was hilarious, and most of all he was a good friend. He was always there for me. I can remember talking to him for hours about everything and anything. I remember waiting outside in the freezing cold all night for our Wii's. But most of all I just remember him.
I don't think I will ever be the same after knowing Corey, and seeing him leave us so tragically. But then again, will any of us ever be the same? He touched us all in one way or another. Whether you knew him personally, or only saw him in the halls, or at the musicals, he will be missed by everyone.
I hope to see you all at the memorial and service. And once again, this is for everyone. I hope that everyone can leave their condolences in comments, or if they so choose they can e-mail me posts and I can put them on the site. My e-mail is WLentlie@gmail.com. We all cared about Corey very much, and I think it will be good to have a site where we can all share our thoughts, our prayers, and our memories of him. He will be missed.
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